Here is why:
It hurts to see Smart Singles dating and falling in love with the wrong people, and then breaking up again and again, ruining their quality of inner life.
I have been studying this decision-making challenge for over 15 years, and I am very pleased to tell you that there is a Dating Solution to the complex challenges in today's dating world. If you are interested, I will teach you how to make the right dating decisions the first time. I will show you how to succeed without bruising your precious heart.
Now, I know you're probably skeptical because this is a totally new concept for success in dating and matching. That's normal and healthy. Let me give you three good reasons you should not miss the opportunity to learn this indispensable dating knowledge:
Three Reasons You should Learn this New Dating Skill Now Reason one: The life-shaping knowledge I am going to share with you is a unique collection of over 40,000 years of other people's dating and relationship experiences. This is the base knowledge you need to shorten your learning curve, and to save you from repeating these costly mistakes. Learning this prerequisite dating knowledge is a great investment, because it will save you the time and money you'd otherwise waste dating and falling in love with the wrong people, and then breaking up later. This quality of dating knowledge is not available anywhere else. Reason two: Let's be honest. Many Singles believe that finding true love is just a one-magic decision, where you admire someone's outlooks and possessions and say right, s/he is the right one for you. No! Success in dating and matching does not happen like that, more especially in our increasingly complex society. There are so many dating risks and uncertainties, and I am requesting you to allow me to teach you how to foresee and manage these dating risks in the earliest stages of dating. If you are interested, I will teach you how to take the guesswork out of dating and matching, and give you the answers to these and hundreds of other dating questions. I have written 2 information-packed books on this topic.
Reason three: Learning this new dating skill gives you an insider's grasp of what is happening in today's dating world and the latest breakthrough. This is the knowledge you need to help you overcome the challenges you'll meet in today's dating world. It is all packaged in the Dating Solution, and it includes the hottest dating techniques, the best dating advice ever, best matching techniques, and the 10 critical steps you should not ignore or take for granted if your goal is to make a quality dating decision. The Dating Solution is designed to help you live your dream of dating right and finding your true man or true woman who also finds you true to them. It is all in "The Dating Solution".
Here is a summary of the benefits you receive
- 1) Best Dating Advice: How to Choose Your True Lifetime Lover
- This audio program teaches you the latest dating tips, dating techniques, and all the consequential secrets you have to know to succeed in navigating today's dating world. This audio takes you behind closed doors, gives you all the important facts you need to make quality decisions, and reminds you of the process protocol. Most importantly, this audio program takes the guesswork out of dating and matching, and brings all the essential know-how and advice into focus for you to enjoy your future.
- 2) 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage; Self-Help Secrets for the Smart Lover
- This book of love shares with you the dating lessons from over 1,000 people. It is designed to expand your dating knowledge and familiarize you with all sorts of challenges you are likely to meet when you start dating. This rare book arms you with vital insights and little known techniques that satisfies your need to know. It is full of hard-won wisdom - a study that took 4 years to complete. You will find it a great reference book to keep.
- 3) The Dating Solution
- This is a combination of these two information-packed books that provide guidance to enable you to make quality dating decisions from start to end. It contains all the missing information and advice needed to empower you to make quality dating decisions. It will enable you to start your love relationship from a rock solid foundation. With this Dating Solution, you do not have to waste your time dating or falling in love with the wrong person.
- It teaches you how to skillfully choose your ideal man or ideal woman from a large open range of singles. You no longer have to rely on false assumptions and cohabitation arrangements to prove whether you are compatible or not.
- The Dating Solution teaches you the 11 underlying root causes of marital failure, and how to learn from them to make better dating decisions.
- It teaches you how to tell whether s/he is the right person for you as a lifetime lover. You will also learn how to use the 10 Step Smart Lover's Model to foresee the future of your love relationship, and minimize the uncertainties that could jeopardize your quality of love life.
- The Dating Solution teaches you the 10 most important things you must do before you start dating. It teaches you the 11 things that people fear most when they are dating, and how you can overcome this fear skillfully.
- It teaches you the common unacceptable habits that cause relationship problems. How to identify them; how to develop your dating risk control and risk tolerance zones, and how to use the Smart Lover's Risk Exit Strategies.
- Teaches you how to tell whether your life-shaping decision is from your inner person or outer person. Learning this master secret alone will guarantee you lifetime happiness.
- The Dating Solution teaches you what to match, how to match, and what you must know to get it right the first time. Learning this is cheaper than bruising your heart.
- It teaches you the 14 questions you must answer to save yourself from falling in love with the person who is not right for you for the long term (page 152)
- It teaches you the techniques that Smart people use in managing the risks and uncertainties during the pre-wedlock period. You learn the advantages and disadvantages of prenups. You learn the unique advantages of using the Smart Lover's Exit Strategies before you commit your love. All your dating decisions are based on well informed and accurate information.
- The Dating Solution teaches you how to design the profile of the person you want as your ideal lifetime lover. You learn the most important things you must do on your 1st date to ensure that you are not going the wrong way. You learn what to look out for on a follow up date. You learn how to evaluate whether s/he is ideal or not. You learn how to get total disclosure from him/her in a very short time. You learn all this missing knowledge and find your true husband or true wife to start a joyful and meaningful love life.
| Now, you're probably wondering how and why I learned all those things.
Let me explain.
First, I will tell you my story, so you can understand why I am so interested in helping you to overcome the challenges you are facing in today's dating world. I have ever been where you are today. I did not know this dating skill or how to make quality dating decisions. I made my first dating decisions basing on my love emotions and blind luck, and guess what?
I paid the full price of a failed marriage.
(...,full story is in the book). So, when I asked people for advice on what I should have done to succeed in marriage, I was shocked by their answers – the majority believed that success in marriage was a trial and error approach with a 50/50 chance of success! What? 50/50? Trial and error method?
"Is finding and keeping a lover just a matter of luck?"
As a project risk management specialist, I know that no successful project happens by luck. I believed that I could use the same risk management approach to learn to foresee and manage the risks and uncertainties in dating and matching. I just couldn’t take it anymore seeing more nice people repeating these costly dating mistakes, falling in love with the wrong people, breaking up families and ruining their quality of love life. I did not want to see anyone in that hurting and unpleasant situation.
"It was the desire to find a lasting solution that led me to interview over 1,000 successfully and unsuccessfully married adults"
I was shocked by these findings (the missing knowledge):
1. This study revealed that there are 10 critical steps where one had to make a conscious decision before moving on. 10 steps that must not be ignored or taken for granted if your goal is to make a quality dating decision (matching to find your true love)! Each Step communicates specific information that requires you to see the bigger picture. And each stage has a functional purpose that must be confidently addressed in order to match successfully. Master this process protocol and you are a winner, you'll make dating very easy!
2. This study also revealed patterns that highlighted the existence of a clear path to a successful and lasting love relationship. Wow! It revealed that anybody aware of these distinct patterns could/can skillfully create a rich and lasting love relationship. It was exciting to realize that these patterns also revealed the hidden risks in the pre-marriage process. This revealed that marriage is predictable, and that most people could be empowered to learn to foresee the future of their marriage during the initial dating stage.
3. Fortunately, I was able to structure this missing knowledge, and develop two needed decision-making tools, the 10 Step Smart Lover’s Model, and the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategy Flow Chart, to put you in control of the whole dating process, and to help you make lifetime winning decisions. Wow! I was compelled to share this wisdom to help Singles to become more successful in making these life-shaping decisions, and to build more joyful families.
"Writing the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage then became a necessity"
a). The insights in this book will help you to skillfully create a fulfilling love relationship. The 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage; Self-Help Secrets for the Smart Lover teaches you how to make a winning lifetime decision. This book of love contains the essential base knowledge that enables you to make the right dating decisions and to build a rich and lasting love relationship. It is now a popular book on every happy family’s bookshelf. You will get this book of love enclosed in the Dating Solution. Book is 224 pages, paperback cover, Smart Spouse Publishers, ISBN: 0974216402, ISBN13: 9780974216409. This book of love shows you how to protect your heart from these costly mistakes.
b). Later on in one of my book signing events, I was demonstrating to Singles how to use the 10-Step Smart Lover’s Model as a decision-making tool that helps them to choose the right man or woman out of an open range of millions of singles. They couldn’t believe it was this easy. They were so impressed by the structured thinking style that enables you to see the bigger picture, to be able to make the right decisions at every step of the 9 critical steps of the dating process.
They requested that I put it on an audio-book format so they could listen to it often. I responded accordingly, and this audio book was born, titled, Best Dating Advice; How to Choose Your True Lifetime Lover --73 minutes of hot dating tips and techniques to help you navigate today’s dating world without making yourself vulnerable. Now you can confidently choose your true lifetime lover from the millions of single men and women out there. (Uniquely packaged: 1 + 2 = The Dating Solution)
You be the judge.
I am so concerned with the rate at which families are being destroyed. I am inviting you to join me in empowering more Singles to ensure that no one is driving the wrong way to self-destruction. Many Singles are not aware of this new dating skill that enables them to date successfully, match successfully, and start their relationship from a rock solid foundation. With this skillful dating, there is no reason to date the wrong person, no reason to fall in love or marry the wrong person, and certainly No Excuse to Wait to be Unpleasantly Surprised. It is all predictable! I urge every Smart Single to learn this new dating skill now, because We have to Reverse today's DISTURBING trends -- Costly Dating Mistakes (data collection not complete, and this is the lower average):
Let's take a closer look.
i). On average more than 900,000 divorces are finalized each year, this breaks down to about 2,465 divorces a day. (this excludes the unresolved cases & the emotionally divorced)
ii). On average 5,000,000 domestic violence cases each year; this breaks down to 13,698 domestic violence cases each day (and many are not reported).
iii). On average 4 million women are hospitalized each year for injuries from their husbands or boyfriends; breaks down to about 10,958 women hospitalized every day.
iv). On average,700,000 men are battered each year, and (data collection not complete) men are hospitalized for injuries from their wives or girlfriends (about 1,917 men hospitalized/day)
v). On average, 1,500 people are KILLED by their lovers /spouses, breaks down to 4 people each day!
They did not know. Such mismatch could have been prevented at the initial dating stage.
Let's be honest: Marital failure is now a pressing social problem, and no longer an individual problem as many people think. This pain is spreading like a wild fire, and as a result, we are seeing an increase in drug abuse, children joining gangs, unhappy folks, and drive-by-shootings that make some neighborhoods completely unsafe for everyone that lives there.
Abraham Lincoln said it best, "If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend the first six hours sharpening the ax". Great advice. You spent years in school learning how to read and write. Are you ready to invest a day or two to learn this new dating skill and plan for a successful and lasting love relationship, (so you don't fall in love with the wrong person to ruin tomorrow)? Think of it: A Smart Single should not rush to date, fall in love or marry before learning how to do it successfully (skillfully).
Don't take my word for it.
Listen to what our customers say.
Testimonial: -- "Dear Counselor. Have you read the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage? I recommend that you read it and suggest it as a mandatory reading for all your patients. I have read this book, and it is worth every minute spent. I have handled more than 100 divorce cases, and wish I had this book to share with my Clients at the time." Sydney Gordon, CA
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Testimonial: -- "Book of the century on "rock solid" relationships. Every one in America needs to read this book. It will give insights to troubled marriages today; and for those seeking a long lasting love relationship, this book is a must. Great work!! Sheree Victorian, Chicago, IL
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Testimonial: -- "This is a wonderful book on relationships and how to find your "true" true love. It outlines the steps to go through in a relationship and the "signals" that it is not going to work. This book is a must have for all the singles, divorcees and even married couples who want to be better in marriage". Debbie Gordon, Elgin, IL
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Testimonial: -- "The SLM (Smart Lover's Model) provides examples of well-conducted research studies and deep analysis of the thought patterns of men and women who have both excelled as well as bombed out in relationships", Pat Williams, Chicago, IL
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Testimonial: -- "Learning Skillful Dating at $97 is cheaper than a divorce, it is cheaper than a domestic violence or getting stuck in an empty shell marriage. Investing $97 to protect one's heart is a no brainer" Mary Switzer, FL
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Testimonial: -- "We are in the Information Age, but many people still shun knowledge. It pisses me seeing many great women and men divorcing and wasting away in jail for a domestic violence charge that was preventable from day One. Everybody needs to read this book". Peter J King, TX
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| Warning: Do NOT pay for any Dating Advice
unless it meets the following 6 criteria:
There is a lot of confusion surrounding dating advice, and a lot of the popular advice is false, and some even very misleading and likely to cause you relationship problems in the future. (Think about it: If the popular dating advice was truly good advice, divorce and DV would not be on the rise! A lot of the popular dating advice is only good for temporary success, - see the figures above). Simply stated, I want to give you 6 criteria or elements you absolutely, must ask for as you seek dating advice: 1: A good Dating Teacher should teach you how to avoid these costly dating mistakes. S/he should teach you what you must know before you start dating, the 9 critical steps of dating, and how to make the right dating decisions the first time; how to choose your true husband or true wife from a large database of Singles and be right at the first attempt? 2: A good Dating Teacher should empower you with a decision-making tool because there are too many decisions to make, it's not smart to rely on your memory alone. Remember, there are so many decisions to make from Day One, and each decision at each stage has a consequence that affects the results of the next stage. With the 10 Step Smart Lover's Model, it is very easy to see the bigger picture; it reveals the critical indicators that need re-evaluation and helps to confirm that you are ideal for each other. There are many players out there, and you are likely to get mesmerized with the little things that don't count in the long term. This is critical and your dating teacher should teach you these incisive details. 3: A good Dating Teacher should teach you how to foresee and manage the risks and uncertainties in dating. Every person has a good side they display when they are dating, and you need the Smart Lover's Risk Exit Strategy mindset to identify these unacceptable risks before you become emotionally attached to them. Your Dating Teacher should teach you how to develop your dating risk control and risk tolerance zones, and teach you how to use the Smart Lover's Risk Exit Strategy Flow Chart. This decision-making tool helps you to prevent a mismatch with an impostor who is going to pretend to be the ideal one and later change to ruin your quality of love life. 4: A good Dating Teacher should enrich you with atleast over 40,000 years of other people's real-life experiences. She/He should teach you the 11 underlying root causes of marital failure, why people repeat these costly dating mistakes, the critical factors to evaluate whether you are on or off track to your dreamed destiny, the 11 things people fear in dating and how to overcome them, the 10 most important things you must do before you start dating, the most important things to do on your 1st date, on your follow-up date,
5: A good Dating Teacher should teach you how to get total disclosure, how to tell whether the decision is from your inner person or outer person, the key secrets to matching, how to match, what to match, how to match skillfully,etc. A good dating teacher should teach this incisive know-how to help you to make the right decisions the first time. A good Dating Teacher should teach you all this prerequisite base knowledge, and then guide you all the way to success. 6: A good Dating Teacher should satisfy your need to know. She/he should take you behind closed doors and give you an insider's grasp of this decision-making process - in dating and matching. Unfortunately, many teachers do not bring all this quality of dating know-how and decision-making tools into focus for you.
A good dating teacher needs to be aware of what is happening in today's dating world, the new concepts and the latest breakthrough. If your Dating Teacher teaches you this detailed dating knowledge, then s/he is on top, and without a doubt, worth your money.
Best of all, this whole knowledge is now in "the Dating Solution". The Dating Solution is so user-friendly and is designed to keep you ahead of the dating decisions. It is so detailed; it tells you Step 1 do this, Step 2 do this, Step 3 do this, up to Step 10. Best of all, you do not have to guess or rely on your memory alone.
You get at least 10 times your money's worth! For instance, if you wanted to delegate your matchmaking responsibilities to a third party, most dating agencies would charge you between $2,000 and $200,000 to find you someone who could probably be your ideal match.
This matchmaking fee is not affordable to most Singles. As a dating teacher, I love seeing people happy and living their dreams. I vowed I would make the Dating Solution affordable to every Smart Single, and that is why I am giving it away for a measly $97 Investment.
Compare the two alternatives: With this Dating Solution, you learn this new dating skill, you take total control, you shape and influence your marital destiny. You also keep the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage as a rare book that most people are using over and over in growing their love relationship. "It is a great reference book of love".
You learn this dating skill, you learn how to date and match skillfully at a bargain, and you can start your relationship from a solid foundation to achieve your dreamed love life. You start your journey to lifetime happiness. And best of all, you do not have to pay an arm and a leg to find your true lifetime love.
You only invest a measly $97.00
In summary, here's what you get: You'll get the complete Dating Solution, that includes two packages: The rare book of love - 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage to use as a reference book. You also receive another enclosed package with the audio program to guide you with the most recent dating tips you need in order to succeed in today's dating world. You are empowered all the way to success.
For only $97, you can avoid these costly dating mistakes, save money, and most importantly, stop ruining tomorrow.
Smart Singles' HOLIDAY SPECIAL
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Yes, $58.20 investment starts on the journey to lifetime happiness. If you respond right away, you invest not $97, but $58.20 for lifetime happiness.
Act immediately and receive the following bonuses Since I know it's 100% to your benefit to act right away, I want to sweeten the pot and give you every possible reason to say YES during this HOLIDAY! If you respond immediately, you'll also receive the following:
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Your satisfaction is guaranteed with our 100%, no-questions-asked, iron-clad money-back guarantee. If you aren't absolutely thrilled with our product, just contact us (or send the product back in a resaleable condition) within 90 days, and we'll refund 100% of your purchase price (minus the shipping charges). No questions asked. You simply cant lose. You don't have to decide now if the Dating Solution is for you. Just get it and try it out. If it doesn't do everything I say and more, if you don't learn new dating tips, or if your dating skills do not improve, or if your life isn't better, or if you don't absolutely love it, just let me know and I'll give you every cent of your money back (less shipping fees). So you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
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HAPPY HOLIDAYS
To your Utmost Success in 10 Steps or Less,
Alex Mugume,
Dating Teacher
Smart Spouse Publishers
P.S. Time runs fast. Before you know it, you will be 21, 29, 38, 47, 55, Oops, 63, 70 and you are still wasting your time dating the wrong people again and again; and ruining tomorrow. You do not want to kick yourself in the future, regretting why you did not learn this new dating skill. If you appreciate peace of mind, then do not miss this opportunity to make your dream come true. P.P.S. Look at it this way - investing $58.20 in your future, is really a painless drop in the bucket compared to the money you are going to waste exposing your heart to the wrong people in the next couple of years, and ruining your quality of life & future. Now you know. Do the math. Have you not waited long enough? Click Here to Order the Dating Solution Today.
P.P.P.S. Need a New Year's gift idea for a friend who is married or in a love relationship? My 3rd book will be released on Dec 10th. It is a collection of the deep rooted wisdom from 160 happily married couples who had been married from ten to sixty years without separation. This book teaches you their proven success mindsets, and how you can duplicate them if your desire is to become a better spouse, and to build a rich and lasting love relationship. The title of this book of love is, "Success Mindsets for the Winning Couple".
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The Dating Teacher believes that this new dating skill will make your life richer than ever before.
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